People say that there is no person who loved and haven’t experienced broken heart at some point in his/her life. But, what we don’t realize about “broken heart” is that it is actually partly our fault too.
Every person has their own flaws, and sometimes if they are not managed, can be harmful for our relationship, and push away the people we love. Once we face them, we can learn how to manage them.
Every zodiac sign has its own negative traits which can actually become a problem in our love life.
According to the zodiac sigh, this is why it seems that people keep breaking your heart:
1. Aries (March 21 – April 19)
Aries is definitely a sing which is kind at heart, but that kindness is not always known to the others around us. You may come across as being self-interested, independent to a fault, and uninterested in long-term commitment and sharing anything in your life. This can actually be a real problem when being seriously pursued by a potential partner.
2. Taurus (April 20 – May 20)
Taurus may be a loyal friend but it is also very stubborn. You may have some trouble to let things go, and often stay mad for things longer than it is actually needed. Even when your partner is wrong and apologizes, you will let that anger keep boiling. This is a reason enough to push any lover away from you for good.
3. Gemini (May 20 – June 20)
Gemini are the free spirits, the Coachella-going Phish-following zodiac sign. You may sometimes be difficult to convince to be committed, and even once committed, you are tending to just go off, and do your own thing anyway. This can be incredibly off – putting to your partner. You should consider the needs of your partner before you change your relationship status. But, are you actually ready for this?
4. Cancer (June 21 – July 22)
Cancer is actually a care taker, and while they rely on themselves fairly well, they tend to get clingy and smother their partner in relationship. It is a kind of passion which is not always enjoyed and even wanted. You should think about the kind of space that your partner needs and is important to him/her, and grant it to them.
5. Leo (July 23 – August 22)
Leo is a sign that won’t cheat on you, and in a lot of ways, it is the best quality that monogamous partner should have, but they also tend to be egotistical and vain. Those tendencies are not particularly ideal. You argue points too fiercely and you try too hard to win. You maybe feel good by doing that, but it may be irritating for those people around you.
6. Virgo (August 23 – September 22)
Virgo is the least trusting of all the signs. Those with this signs are the partners most likely to snoop around in underwear drawers and check on their partner’s browser history. If there is any level of doubt and jealousy in the relationship, it will absolutely kill it before you know it. You should trust your partner, even when the mistrust is in your nature. You have to know that you have more than one nature. So, don’t appeal to your basal instincts.
7. Libra (September 23 – October 22)
Libras are one of the most hopeful of all the signs, and this can actually be a big problem in a relationship. You tend to take on partners who are not really right for you, and you also try to change them into the person you need for them to be. This is actually a disaster waiting to happen soon, as they will not stand for it. You should learn how to take it or leave it when it is about your love life.
8. Scorpio (October 23 – November 21)
Scorpio is actually passionate to say the very least, but their passion sometimes translates to jealousy and absurd behavior as well. You have to know that you can’t control the person you love, you can’t cling to them, and you can’t be possessive of them. You should kick all those habits to the curb.
Also, remember that you have more than one nature. Don’t be such a scorpion, keep the good aspects, and leave those which are bad.
9. Sagittarius (November 22 – December 21)
This is a kind of sign which can hike a 14’er one day, and go scuba diving the next one. This can be a lot of fun for your partner, but it can also be a little bit tiring. If you have high expectations, they will get you into trouble. If you are an extrovert, and your partner is as well, let them stay home once in a while. It is not an insult against your lifestyle. Remember, not everyone can be as adventurous as you are.
10. Capricorn (December 22 – January 19)
This sing has the hardest time opening itself up and trusting his/her partner as well. You are acting like your partner has to do something magical, or some other things in order to earn your trust. But, in that way, trust isn’t earned, but mistrust. You should not assume the worst just because you can’t see them 24/7. That kind of smothering jealousy will ruin any relationship very fast.
11. Aquarius (January 20 – February 18)
People in this sign are smart. They are a kind of people who always have some witticism on the tip of their tongue. Being with such a quick – minded person can be very fun, but you should also know when to turn it off. You tend to get into tit-for-tat type arguments and squabbles with people and that can really quickly turn off a lover.
12. Pisces (February 19 – March 20)
People in this sign tend to be wildly emotional at times. They are particularly susceptible to longing for ex – lovers. They don’t want to be alone, we understand that, but when they are still hot for their ex, they should not start dating someone new. They should learn how to get over their ex, and leave their baggage behind before they take up with someone new. If people in this sign still love their exes, there is no one else going to settle for them.