In today’s article, we are going to tell you something which you should read, no matter if you are married or not.
There was a boy born to a couple after they have been 11 years in marriage. They were one loving couple and the boy was the apple of their eyes. When the boy was around 2 years – old, one morning his father saw a medicine bottle open. But, as he was late for work, he asked the wife to cap the bottle and keep it in the cupboard. The mother, being preoccupied in the kitchen, totally forgot to matter.
Then, the little boy saw the bottle and playfully went to it, and fascinated with the color it had, he drank it all. The content in the bottle happened to be a poisonous medicine meant for adults in small dosages. When the little boy collapsed, the mother took him to the hospital where he died. The mother was stunned and she was also terrified how to face her husband.
When the distraught father arrived at the hospital and saw his little son dead, he looked at his wife and uttered just four words.
So, what do you think that those four words were? He just said: “I love you darling.” The totally unexpected reaction of the husband is proactive behavior because the child is dead. He can never be brought back to life. There is no point in finding fault in his mother. Besides, if only he had taken just one minute in keeping the bottle away, this will never had happened.
There is no point in attacking blame. The mother had also lost her only child. What she actually needed at the moment was consolation and sympathy from her husband. And that is what he gave her.
Sometimes we spend our time asking ourselves who is responsible or who to blame, whether in a relationship, in a job or maybe with the people we know.
We miss out some warmth in human relationship in giving each other support. After all, don’t you think that forgiving someone that we love can be the easiest thing in the world to do? You should treasure what you have. You should not multiply pain, anguish and suffering by holding on to forgiveness. If every person can look at life with this kind of perspective, there would be much fewer problems in the world.
You should take off all your envies, jealousies and unwillingness to forgive, selfishness, and fears and you will find things which are actually not as difficult as you think they are.