On the first look, it would seem that empathic people are fragile and very emotional people. But this kind of vulnerability to feel deeply, as well as more intensely then other people is actually something that you should never take as a weakness.
In fact, we can say that empathic people are people who are given with superpower which goes beyond just ‘feeling more deeply’ than other people. That is just a byproduct of their real gift.
If you think that in some way you can manipulate their nature, just have in mind that they will know what you are actually doing.
– What is the primary gift of an empathic person?
Empathic people are people who may be born with a heightened ability to feel the feelings of other people around them, but however, that is not actually their real and only gift.
The primary gift of an empathic person is divine understanding of the human psychology. This also makes them being able to tell when someone is faking, lying, or simply not who they said they were.
Some nice people often have some cruel intentions, let’s just face that fact. Empathic people are only able to recognize this. As an empathic person, the best way to explain such situations is: knowing just happens.
It is like they have another set of eyes that can see other people’s intentions. They know how to read people and they cannot be easily fooled.
It is fact that they feel a lot, and sometimes it may also get overwhelming, but anyone would feel this intense if they see how much people pretend and lie all around them, all of the time.
Empathic people do not lie to others necessarily, they lie to themselves. They also complicate their lives so much. And if the world is actually aware of how fake it really is, as well as how much suffering is created exactly of this fakery, everyone will feel as intensely as we are feeling. They would fall on their knees and cry!
In today’s article, we are going to present you the ten reasons why you should never mess with an empathic person. Here they are:
1. Empathic people are basically lie detectors
When a person lies, they give off some certain subconscious body movements and ‘ticks’, if you must. If you are a cheating type of partner, you should not get with an empathic person, because soon you will enjoy the taste of your own medicine.
One of the common ways of identifying a liar is their eye movements, as well as overwhelming intention to convince you. The one thing every liar has when telling a lie is behavioral disassociation with their energy. In order to lie they have to turn their back to their emotions. This will create some type of disharmony that only highly sensitive person can perceive.
However, if you are such type of person, you already know all of this. You don’t know how to explain how you know, you simply do it. It is actually the most prominent feeling that you will ever feel in your gut.
2. Do not try fooling them
Empathic people have the ability to feel the feelings of other people – much more than they would want too. As a reason of this, they will know when you are faking.
You should not try and hide your cruel intentions around a person that is empathic person, because it simply will not work. It is just wearing a colorful hat. They have a sense, like sight, that simply sees intentions just like people would see the colorful hat.
Empathicpeople can actually see right through yourconniving disguise. They often don’t ever approach it either because they are also aware that you obviously have some kind of mental distortion.
3. They sense jealousy
Empathic people have the ability to feel when you are jealous of them. You are maybe expecting this to make them feel a bit confident and charismatic, but that would be actually wrong.
Empathic people may know that you are jealous for whatever reason, and they will often demonstrate humility, in order to make you feel more comfortable.
4. Empathic people sense hatred
One of the most prevalent senses that an empathic person can have is for hatred. Hatred is actually one really negative emotion which also gives off negative energy that is powerful.
Empathic people are usually drawn away by this feeling. They aren’t hurt over your hatred, but would rather not have their soul affected by your negative energy.
They actually do not lose sleep over and hatred, which often causes people to hate them even more.
Empathic people are comfortable with who they are and they do not expect being someone else.
5. They know your prejudices
Empathic people will always know when you have a hidden prejudice.
If you feel discomforted by people with different colored skin, sexual orientation, or personality differences, the empathic person will very likely lose interest. This is because empathic people see people through all the layers and know that we really are deep inside. Labels also mean nothing to them.
Empathic people are also not interested in people who are shallow or self-absorbed. They don’t respect people who let labels determine how they see other people.
6. They will know when you are not fine
If you ever had the following conversation with a friend, than they are more than likely an empathic person:
“Are you okay?”
“Yes, I am fine.”
“No, you’re not. Now tell me everything.”
Empathic people know when you lie, and they also know when you are feeling bad. Having a friend with whom you can talk to about things is a tremendous help! Take advantage of your friend’s healing abilities and do not lie to them. Don’t be afraid; they want to help.
7. They can read Lackey’s like a book
Empathic people usually hate small talk, and they also hate sucking up even more. You should not falsely compliment an empathic person in order to gain their attention. Empathic people usually hate this and they also see what you are doing.
The most powerful ability of an empathic person is deciphering people’s actions and intentions. They perceive layers of your psychology that you are not even aware of. So, it will be easier to be honest with them.
8. Empathic people know when you are on the wrong path
If you have some friend who is empathic, they are warning you about the things you have been doing, so you should listen to them.
Empathic people are also so good at predicting potential destructive behavior it is similar to time travel. They know your subconscious reasoning, they know the outcomes from that and they will tell you if it isn’t worth it.
When this type of person tells you that you are heading for a dark place, the better for you will be just simply to reevaluate your intentions.
9. They know when you are trying to be someone you are not
Empathic people are able to see the spirit of a person. They also appreciate your perks and flaws.
There is actually nothing more attractive to an empathic person than someone who is their self. When you try to put on an act, they will know for sure.
You should be confident in your own skin, and you should also not try to be someone that you are not, especially when you are with an empathic person. They also fall in love with congruency because they know how rare that is in the world. Congruent person is like a breath of fresh air for them.
10. They can also identify exploitation
Do you remember when you were a kid and you wanted something, so you would ‘butter up’ your parents in order to get what you actually want.
You should not do this to an empathic person – they will stop you in your tracks. You are more likely to get what you want by saying it straight up rather than playing nice just to get it.
An empathic person may let you play your role, but they will actually never give you the thing you are playing your role for. They will also circle you around until you are tired of playing. What they found funny is to see how far they will go.